!Notes from HIS(!) book "The De Limas of Frederick Street". He wrote: My maternal grandfather and grandmother were first cousins. While as mentioned elsewhere, my father's first wife Josefita was my mother's aunt and Godmother, when his grandson Alfonso married my aunt, I was his half-uncle and he was my step uncle. Whereas his wife was also his step aunt. My uncle Rafael Tobias whom we called Toby was my grandmother's last child and two years younger than I. It made no sense calling him Uncle Toby as no one believed it.